Being in an English speaking country does not necessarily mean that the people will think and behave like you. Even if people look like you and dress like you, that does not necessarily mean they will think like you. Every country has cultural differences and some take time to discover. Try to talk to as many missionaries on your field as you can and ask about their experiences with the people there.

Exchange rates can change quickly and dramatically. Raise as much support as you can before going overseas and plan for possible huge changes in the exchange rate. Regularly save as much as you can, even while on the field for those times when the exchange rate unfavourably changes.

People will hurt you. In many countries, people have a very negative view of Americans. Some of this may be due to the negative portrayal of Americans in the media. Try not to take this personally. Be patient with people and let them get to know the real you. Over time they will begin to see that those perceptions are wrong.

Relationships with your family, especially your spouse, will be tested on the field. Make sure that you do not neglect your spouse or children for the sake of the ministry. They are your first ministry. If you are single, realise that relationships are important and seek to find some trustworthy, godly friends to encourage you and support you.

Even the relationships with your family and friends back home will change over the years. When you return home after a long period away, you will realise that they have moved on. Make sure that you devote enough time to reconnect. Spend time with your home and sending church too. Allow them the opportunity to get to know you and your family. Reconnect with old friends and meet new people who joined the ministry after you left.

Prioritising your private time with the Lord may be difficult. Things can get very hectic and busy on the field and your quiet time can suffer. Make sure that you make your time with the Lord in Bible study, prayer and Bible reading a priority every day. This is what will carry you through, especially during those difficult times.

After many years on the field, a time will come when you may feel more at home on the field than in your home country. Acknowledge this and be patient when you return back home. You have two homes now, each with a special place in your heart. Cherish both and thank God for giving you such a blessing.

Rainy days will come. Discouragement will come especially when the progress is slow and results are small. Sometimes it will take a long time to see what God is doing around you and through you. Surround yourself with encouraging people. Let godly friends know when you are struggling. Make your prayer life an ultimate priority. Thank God for the bright spots and little victories along the way.

Enjoying the journey is okay. It is alright to take some time out to enjoy the journey. Cultivate strong friendships. Discover the special and unique places around you. Do not feel guilty for having some time for yourself and your family. Take some time off to refresh and reenergise on a regular basis.

Different fields bring different results. Be realistic about your goals. Do not compare yourself with other missionaries and ministries. Fields and circumstances are much different. Be faithful to what God has called you to do.

Valerie Keefe | Missionary to Australia