Parents of toddlers and preschoolers—did you know that one of the primary ways that your young children learn is through playing? Playing may seem like something kids do until they are old enough for school and “real” learning, but play is very valuable in the life of a young child. “Pretend” play can be beneficial in helping a child learn to understand themselves and others.

You can help your child in this area by allowing them to have plenty of exposure to the real world, and to people, not just toys. By using everyday objects and playing pretend, your child is actually learning. Using items like water, sand, mixing bowls, cups, and cardboard boxes can be a fun way to learn. Give them opportunities to play outside and explore, hide and climb.

I still remember when Bethany was a toddler and we were living in Kenya. One of her favorite things to do was go into the back yard and make “tea” for our dogs. We had a little bucket of water and some measuring cups, and she would measure out some water for the dogs and they would come and drink. She loved to do this over and over.

We may sometimes mistakenly think of play as a luxury or a waste of time. But if all your young child wants to do is play, that’s great! This is how they are learning. Play has the maximum benefit when kids have the freedom to choose activities for themselves and to create their own learning experiences. The more opportunities they have for imaginary play, for exploring, climbing, hiding, and interacting with everyday objects, the better for their development.

Parents, you are the biggest supporters of your child’s learning. So, let them play!

-by Pam Konnerup